Is Low Self Esteem Strangling You?

I am Low Self Esteem Shouting at YOU

That nagging whining voice of low self esteem can say a lot of things. It might say

“I don’t deserve it”
“This is not for me”
“I don’t deserve to have money”
“That’s for rich people, not me”

Most people hear the nagging voice of low self esteem. Trust me, we all have it to some extent. Some people are crippled by low self esteem. It makes them live their life from a [place of fear not love.
A few people have that voice as a result of a really painful traumatic experience. Most people don’t!

Your Low Self Esteem Isn’t Yours

That’s because, ironically, this nagging voice isn’t yours! It represents a belief system that you believe in that’s for sure. Unfortunately, it doesn’t represent your beliefs!

Most of these beliefs come from other people. You may have heard your aunt say to your mother as a child something like:

“Harry has lost his job again. I don’t know how long it will take him to get another one. And even if he does how long will he keep it”.

Let’s say your three years of age when you hear that and you’re sitting next to your mum on the sofa. You have long since forgotten that physical memory.

Your subconscious will never forget it. Your subconscious registered several things from this statement.

It registered a belief that money is hard to come by. How did it do that? Well, it heard that hard to keep a job.

What it refused to hear that it was only about Harry. It didn’t hear the circumstances. It doesn’t care about the circumstances it just registered a limiting belief. A limiting belief that will last a lifetime until you release it.

That limiting belief that money is hard to come by as haunted you your whole life.

Getting and Keeping Money Is Difficult

You have this feeling that money is hard to come by and it follows you around. It’s wrapped up for itself around your neck and into your head.

Feelings are like waves they come all the time, but you can choose which ones to surf!

You can also overcome those limiting beliefs they don’t have to drag you down your whole life.

If you find yourself saying “it’s all my fault” all the time, then you are living in an endless cycle of shame.

The problem with living in this cycle is that you are surrounded by blackness and negativity. You simply cannot see the light all the way forward.

Maybe as a teenager, you were told that taking responsibility for your actions was a good thing. Indeed it often is a sign of maturity.

When you have taken responsibility for this internal conflict that is raging inside you then this is not a sign of either maturity or sense.

The reason for this is that it’s not possible to have a conflict in the singular, conflict is always plural. You may have heard the expression “He can start a fight in an empty room, but how many wars have been started and fought with just one side. Even a civil war takes two sides!

It’s All MyFault

So the expression “it’s all my fault all of the time”, is an oxymoron.

To make matters worse self-sabotaging has nothing to do with responsibility but everything to do with avoiding the situation.

If you take the negative blame and cocoon yourself in the misery that surrounds you as a result of this then you are incapable of making anything better. You are totally paralyzed. You are gripped by an irrational fear. This fear prevents you from growing and changing.

You avoid analyzing what went wrong and how. Instead of projecting blame onto other people which is also a kind of self-sabotaging we take the blame ourselves.

So it’s a good idea to have a look at why you take the blame. Because chances are this has become a habit. To break that habit you need to understand what benefits you receive from self-sabotage.

By becoming the victim you make yourself powerless. Worse than that you project that powerlessness onto other people and become a leech.

You’ve all heard the expression that we attract what we think about most. In this case, we are thinking about being to blame and powerless.

It will come as no surprise to any of you that when you are in that mode you attract only people who are negative. You attract people who blame themselves. People are drawn to you who were also powerless. The universe is indiscriminate it gives you what you want.

In this case, you want a lack of power. You want to self-sabotage yourself.

Can I break the pattern of Low Self Esteem?

Blaming our self can become totally addictive. It’s quite easy to bury our self in self-sabotage. This behavior can be a result of your parents never encouraging you or allowing you to shine.

Sometimes even the best of parents, the ones who really love their children can instill this self-sabotaging belief.

They show you, great love, when you do the things that they want you to do. On the other hand, they criticise you when you don’t quite do what they want you to do. If you dared to show anger or sadness then you were punished.

Can this be treated?

There are ways to treat it with therapy. However, in my experience, all of this self-sabotage is a result of programming. Much of this programming can be rewound during soul clearance session.
It allows us to more deeply collect with who we are. We are connected at every level at all times to everyone else on the planet.

After a soul clearance session, we can move forward. We find that we are more compassionate to others. We show greater empathy toward others and a greater understanding.

Even when we were so bogged down by negativity before we couldn’t see the wood for the trees quite literally.

Suddenly you can take a positive look at your potential. You no longer seem so small you seem bigger in your own eyes.

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